It is hard to talk about marriage and to give advice about it.
I am not a counselor or a marriage specialist. I have lived many years next to a very loving and caring husband who has been a great partner of life. But as I always say, nothing is pink colored. He has his very particular ways and so do I. Throughout 25 years of marriage, I have leaned the importance of communication, the need for little details, and the relevance of saying "OK" even when I don't think it is OK, just to keep the relationship alive and going on. Then, I will find the way to make my point, in peace, with patience and out of love.